(Originally written for The Baldwin Bulletin: Pastor's Column February 3, 2021)
But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. For this we declare to you by a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. (1 Thessalonians 4:13-15)
There are probably differences
between you and I when it comes to how we see the world. What we pay attention
to, what really gets us going likely is not always the same. We may watch or
read different news sources. We may think differently when it comes to politics
or theology or social matters. We participate in different aspects of community
life, associate with different people, and choose to invest our time, energy,
and money into different things.
We are neighbors—whether I’ve met
you or know your name or not. I’m glad to live and minister and worship in
Baldwin, WI. Even though we have differences, and they probably would cause
disagreement if we got into discussions on certain topics, I can respect you
and love you and want what’s truly good for you. That doesn’t mean we’ll always
care about the exact same things.
Maybe thoughts about COVID are what
dominate your life right now: fear of getting sick which impacts how you live day-to-day;
thoughts about masks and vaccines, whether for or against, that you feel it’s
your duty that everyone knows; fatigue with Zoom meetings, YouTube/Facebook
Live church services, and not having as close of relationships as you did ten
months ago.
Maybe thoughts about our nation fill
your mind: if you’re an avid Trump supporter, maybe you’re still beating the
drum of a stolen election (though, it likely won’t change anything); if you claim
the Democrat party and are a Biden/Harris supporter, you’re excited; maybe
you’re relatively indifferent to politics other than wanting decency and for
politicians at all levels to actually get work done. Pray for our nation,
state, towns and leaders; and know you’re not alone.
Sometimes we get all wrapped up in a
particular issue or situation, and it’s hard to believe that everyone else
isn’t anxious or frustrated or consumed the way we are. “Why doesn’t everyone
think like me? Don’t they care?!” If you’ve grieved the loss of a loved one, especially
someone close to you, how you experienced life around that time may have been
substantially different from others. In times of grieving our minds don’t
always function like they normally do. We forget things. We’re focused on
personal matters that tend to be more important for us than whatever else is
going on in sports, politics, even in major world events. It may come off to
others that we don’t care—but really we’re needing care for ourselves.
Meanwhile, though, life continues.
A lot of people are currently living in a state of grief. Life continues, and yet some part of reality has gripped us. What grieving people need is hope. Whatever you’re feeling—sadness, anger, frustration, boredom—perhaps the season of life you’re in is showing you something you’ve trusted in, you’ve depended on, you’ve assumed should always be a certain way. Are there things we can and need to let go of, and place that trust in the God alone who gives us hope in his Son?
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