(Originally written for The Baldwin Bulletin: Pastor's Column April 17, 2024)
…Even if I made you
grieve with my letter, I do not regret it—though I did regret it, for I see
that that letter grieved you, though only for a while. As it is, I rejoice, not
because you were grieved, but because you were grieved into repenting. For you
felt a godly grief, so that you suffered no loss through us. For godly grief
produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly
grief produces death. For see what earnestness this godly grief has produced in
you, but also what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what fear,
what longing, what zeal, what punishment! At every point you have proved
yourselves innocent in the matter. So although I wrote to you, it was not for
the sake of the one who did the wrong, nor for the sake of the one who suffered
the wrong, but in order that your earnestness for us might be revealed to you
in the sight of God. Therefore we are comforted. (2
Corinthians 7:8-12)
A recent discussion I had
with our youth group dealt with the question, “In sanctification the goal is
Christlikeness…What do you think it means to ‘be like Christ’?” Jesus’ death on
the cross and resurrection are wholly sufficient to provide salvation to those
who God loves and who repent and believe in him. Two things that Jesus’ actions
offer right now are justification—the forgiveness of sins and punishment—and
sanctification—that we are made holy, regenerated, reborn, caused to live a new
life, able to bear good fruit through love. If you are saved, both are given to
you.
In his letter to the
people of Corinth, the apostle Paul first talks about grief. I think it’s fair
to say few people enjoy grief. Grief is a time of sadness, mourning, and pain.
We normally think of grief with physical death, but he’s talking about grief over
death that needed to happen with sin. When believers recognize that they are
not living as God calls and enables them to by his Holy Spirit, we are called
to put sin to death. That can be hard if we’ve enjoyed our sin, but also acknowledging
that our sins grieve God and are harmful to us—they are not the best life God
offers—that acknowledgment can cause sorrow. But genuine Christian grief is
only temporary.
I rejoice…because you
were grieved into repenting…For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to
salvation without regret…For see what earnestness this godly grief has produced
in you, but also what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what
fear, what longing, what zeal, what punishment…Therefore we are comforted.
The pain and regret are short term when sanctification is happening. The
Heidelberg Catechism, one of the Reformed confessions, summarizes genuine
repentance or conversion as “the dying-away of the old self, and the
rising-to-life of the new.” The dying-away is the grief part, but the
rising-to-life is, “Wholehearted joy in God through Christ and a love and
delight to live according to the will of God by doing every kind of good work”
(Q&A 88-90).
How do we “be like Christ”? The teenagers in our group talked about not just imitation, but the desire to improve, to leave behind sin and temptation. This isn’t just behavior modification. This isn’t meant to be “I feel bad, and I’ll try better and harder next time.” Being like Christ is an enjoyable growth and maturing in our lives because the Holy Spirit is alive in us. Godly grief is not bad, but recognize that it is the root out of which good fruit and godly living develop. See the eagerness and longing and zeal to delight in God and enjoy his ways when you recognize what agony our sins and fallen nature required of Jesus.
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