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Suffer Together, Rejoice Together

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(Originally written for Douglas County Publishing: Pastor's Meditation May 10, 2016)

When we think about organizations or teams of people, there are different images that come to mind to describe when they work together as they should.  A well-oiled machine.  A labor force as running like clockwork.  Those images capture the efficiency on display, and the lack of problems or hang-ups as people carry out their tasks. 
The church, believers who put their hope in Jesus Christ and who look to him for their salvation, are also an organized group.  We are a people together.  Throughout Scripture, the church is referenced collectively as the bride, the flock of sheep under the Shepherd’s care, and the good seed that has been sown.  We are also each called a part of the one body. 
One of the places we find this is 1 Corinthians 12.  From chapters 11 through 14, Paul writes at length about worship practices, about those who hold certain gifts, and how they ought to be used.  In the middle of telling the Corinthian church how to worship God and using their gifts to honor him, he has them think about the way a body works. 
For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body—whether Jew or Greeks, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink.  Now the body is not made up of one part but of many…As it is, there are many parts, but one body.  The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!”  And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!”  On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor… But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, and there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.  If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it (1 Cor. 12:13-14, 20-26).
To be clear, Paul’s intention in this context is likely referring to people and their gifts.  He realized his audience (and I believe it remains true for us today) would see their differences, and some might think their talents and gifts were lacking compared to other believers.  That recognition would lead to a self-evaluation that they must be less valuable.  But God would have us understand that each of us and each of the gifts that he has given to us is necessary, even essential. 
But I can’t help read verse 26 about suffering and rejoicing together, and think that this shouldn’t apply to other areas of life as well.  If we are living in community, then we ourselves experience and we experience with other people suffering and joy.  A loved one is diagnosed with cancer, a fragile baby must spend time in the NICU, someone close to us passes away at a very young age.  A student graduates high school or college, a healthy baby enters the world, a marriage is celebrated in a wedding or a milestone anniversary.  The reality of life in this world and this age is that these events and others like them happen all at the same time. 
We may go through seasons where it seems like we only experience sad and painful circumstances.  Other times it seems like nothing but blessings and joy can fill our days.  But more often is the case that we are pulled in both directions at the same time.  This is not an easy thing; this is not an easy life.  If we truly want to honor and show compassion to all people, then we hear Paul’s words echoing, “If one suffers, all suffer; if one is honored, all rejoice.”  That might mean we go back and forth in emotions and feelings as we draw near to people experiencing both the hurts and the celebrations of this life.  Yet there are times when we may feel too much of our own suffering to rejoice with another, or on the other hand, too much being honored to deeply suffer.
But when those times come, let us walk through them together.  One’s grief or joy may not be at the same level as another person’s, yet we can present and understand what those parts of the life in faith are all about.  We journey together as the church because Christ has brought us together, and because Christ is together with us.  The one who suffered once for all on the cross is present with us because we are united to him.  He is the head of the body, the one who gathers his church.  We may not always feel connected to every other part, and yet we are reminded that God has combined us, and he is the one who has declared all should have equal concern for each other. 
J. Todd Billings sums it up well in his book Rejoicing in Lament: From one standpoint, the church is a gathering of sinners who are both old and young, healthy and sick, growing and dying.  But, by God’s promise, the church is also people who move through birth, health, dying, and even death on a journey to resurrection because they belong to Jesus Christ.  For the end of the story of God, and of the church, is not death, but resurrection.  We go through all things belonging to Jesus Christ because he has brought us together.  While we must not minimize the highs and lows that we experience here on earth, let us keep the hope of the future eternal resurrection.               
      


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